My ex said she wish she never met me She has been contemplating on leaving for quiet some time. Because she was trying to keep him from cheating. We had been together 13 years and have a 9 year old daughter. Dude your ex is exactly like mine and I wish I just knew this before all the time we spent together. Saw him for the first time in person 2 nights ago in a month, since the day we broke up. She felt trapped and suffocated in the relationship because you smothered her, chased her, and were needy. I love you, I’m sorry, we can still be friends I nearly fell for it but I didn’t buckle Believe me she doesn’t want you back, you’re insurance for if this falls through. Loss of attraction whatever you want to call it, is always a choice. you were a significant part of her life and as long as you guys didn't leave things on bad terms, and as long as there's no explicit request from My ex literally told me the same shit. To make matter worse, he never defended me and continuously catered to her and enabled her bad behavior. This is so fucking true. She was my first relationship and I was the first for her that she said "I love you" and fully was herself (according to her). My ex said she wouldn’t search anyone out and she did less than a week after. We broke up as a result of her going to medical school and her "not wanting to date anyone at this point in her life". I’ve made this mistake in the past and I swear to God I’ll never make it again. She basically said after she dumped me she never wanted to hear from me again. But Shes saying she dont want to lose me etc. If he ignores you or tells you to leave him alone, you have your answer My ex was actually sort of trying to come back because she kept trying to talk to me at work or she’d approach me in the gym to flirt with me. I wish I had this knowledge when I met her My recent ex had mood swings but never hurt me, just after the breakup and wasn't a biggie, more like ,,hurt people hurt people" She is a pathological liar, made her life Before she first talked to me, she tried to talk to my friend two weeks earlier, and he wasn’t interested at all, she tried pretty much every day and the results were always the same, she then befriended me, gave me major hints about liking me, I remember a conversation between her and I when we were talking about where we’d go after college, and she said she’d be willing to live Hmmmmm,? Two Marriage’s first a jump into senerio got married because she was pregnant and was respectful thing to do however she did it beind her parents back / so i was bad guy from get go with her parents later on after 1st child born she stared to changed more demanding & less carefree stress took its toll & i looked elsewhere for the friendship one looks I asked her if she wants to break up, she said ”I dont know”. Just how random people on Facebook wishing you a happy birthday have no expectations of you, neither does a wish from an ex who disappears afterward. Hell, if my ex reached out with a sincere apology and acknowledgement of what she did that hurt me, I'd speak to her again. She’s the type that when she ends a relationship, the ex is dead to her. "And we do that because My ex never communicated an issue to me, never brought up concerns or what she was feeling, and never fully opened herself up. Similarly here my ex said she loves me but feels hurt and trapped with me we had a lot of difficulties but i always told her i would go against the odds to make her happy i would marry her and give her the world by becoming the best of me i was faithful to her and honest the day after she randomly blocked me told me she felt uncomfortable but Reminds me so much of when I told my ex that even if I felt I managed to somehow move on, but still had frequent bursts of nostalgia and still missed and loved her, and that she responded that she didn’t feel anything about me, that it was almost like our relationship never existed to her point of view. She said she couldn’t do it anymore and that she loved me but it was for the best. You should always ignore mean texts from your ex. Using a rebound is never the good way to go! I can't stress this enough. I kept asking her and after I said ”I dont want to break up to but I dont want to be with you if you want to leave”, she then said that she didn’t want to break up. This is my new boyfriend Michael. He’s better than being bored all the time. Here’s what to do if your ex has also hit you with blocks. Sometimes a woman will be feeling bored (e. I didn't reply back but after half an hour, she apologized for saying it. And several many others. “Maybe I made a mistake ghosting my ex. Sometimes a woman might have already met I’m on week 3 of the breakup and currently in the anger phase. But there’s something about it that makes you feel like they want to get back We’ve compiled a list of clear signs that suggest your ex might have not loved you so you can move forward and seek out better, more Which brings me here, just after resolving yet another fight that wouldn't have happened without the monster that is mental illness. Talked to me for 2 hours. She’s an avoidant dismissive that had an impulsive deactivation and quit her job right after the breakup. I texted my ex happy birthday and she said thank you. My ex wanted to talk to me so she just said “hey _____ how are you?” I said “hey if you’re reaching out to want to hangout then I’m down to, although I don’t have much time because I’m busy so I can do tonight” He came back here and there to lead me on but no we never got back together. A week ago she ended up meeting a guy she’s decided she’s really into so now she has chosen to start dating him. Boom. She will wear my clothes, but her words don’t match her actions. I asked her over phone to Your original post was all about how your girlfriend said something while drunk and felt horrible about it afterwards, in this one you specifically say how much work she was putting into the relationship because of how much she loved you but instead of you telling her that you not being the best sex she ever had made the relationship feel hollow to you, you cheated and you lied I asked her about it she said it was the last thing she wanted right now, I asked to talk about it she said she had just told me all her problems was it not obvious she wouldn’t want to do that, she turned over her back to me and I Honestly it sucks either way but I still really wish I could sleep with my 1 hot ex 😂 Never even thought I was in the running till I learned she had a crush on me as well. Goodbye or Open Door? “I wish you the best” often means goodbye. everyone is lying but her. I met a girl last week who strongly reminds me of an ex, the date was great, ended with a kiss, but during the conversation a few of her mannerisms, as well as her face and body type were triggering memories of my long term ex. I wish she wasn’t like that and would take her back in a heartbeat if she respected my boundaries. living together, everything. I'm like 90% moved on but I still think about him and cry sometimes. It’s left me quite confused but I think no contact is the way forward to start moving on. I was in such a good state mentally and physically when I met her, and she said I changed so much, but she wouldn't have texted me or anything despite being the dumper and regretting the break up (which is why, the text I copied from you makes so much I broke up with my girlfriend today, completely blindsiding her and shattering her heart. Days later it was my birthday and then received a “HAPPY BIRTHDAY 343. Needless to say, they remain in contact even before he met me. I kept it for a year and gave it to an old friend I reconnected with. I got with someone a month later who knew me anyway so knew I’m not over my ex. ” My Ex Said She Wished She Never My ex says she misses me. If she was serious about keeping you in her life, you'd be a part of her recovery/healing process. If she tells you to let go of her or that she has moved on, you need to move on as well. ” “Take care of yourself. My friends are telling me she's just saying that to get a rise out of me, is just using this new guy to get over me and will comeback after she she's what's out there. It did and it still does because Tanya is still in love with my husband. I belived neither of us were intending to walk out of the others life. I have to listen to my heart. She met another guy but doesn’t want to tell you directly. She was a smart, skilled therapist. Do I wish she was by my side ? Of course, but to know your love one doesn’t support you, is the most hurtful thing to know. She's genuinely curious about you and wants to know if you feel similar to her because she's looking for understanding and support. She had happened to have a lot of personal issues going on that had happened suddenly in a matter of two days prior (so she says) and I asked her a simple question, SIMPLE ONE about the situation, Yes or no answer and she got very defensive, said “I can’t do this tonight” and that was the last time I heard from her, I tried reaching out asking wtf I did wrong, why she literally I had an ex after 3 years tell me they never loved me stone cold. The other day she was being extremely rude to me and I asked if she treated her ex that way, and she said no. This phrase isn Maybe you’ve gotten a short text message from your ex that said nothing but, “Yeah,” or “OK,” or “LOL”. ive been nc five days and she messaged me once and i didn’t reply then she called me and I answered but i was sort of cold. *blocks me*" My ex said she has no romantic feelings anymore. My ex gf broke up with me about half a month ago, and one of the hardest things for me is to think about what memories we shared together, and how they torture me every day when they pop up in my mind. Everywhere. he says no, hes happier without me. I love her, I still do, but sometimes I wish I wouldn't have met her. Could she really have never These days, I wish I'd never met you, because I could have gone my whole life without knowing you, and I'd be better off for it by saving myself from this heartbreak after making myself I really regret doing that because she was crying nonstop last night about how she is disgusted of me and wishes our relationship never happened. That’s what I am. I suffered a miscarriage to my ex-husband and I will never, NEVER go through that again. I know she has had a lot of bad relationships in the past and she is generally not very trusting of men. But she initiated no contact, so I won't break that. Unlike many similar problems like this with married couples who have This went on all night up to around 7 in the morning when we finally fell asleep and when she woke up she said she felt like she was herself again then told me she was determined to kick me out and did not want to see me ever again. Well a month before the break up, I started to get jealous, nothing serious though. I just bought an apartment here - and she’s “not happy about it. It really hurt me bad because she would always say no man has ever treated her like I did and she was so happy with me. But for 3 straight years her actions indicated otherwise. She’d always leave me at the end of our sessions with “take care of yourself”. 13 Unmistakable Signs She also talked to one my friends, and he told me she admitted to 2 different times she cheated. This was well said. My ex said she fell in love with me after 2 months but it was scary being so vulnerable. a If your ex boyfriend/girlfriend or spouse told you that they never loved you to begin with, they most likely have rewritten history. EDIT: I'm going to stop reading these now but to everyone: no, I did not tell my husband I was a virgin, I've given head to my husband way more times than my ex and it's a regular part of our sex life, I also give much better head to my husband than I ever did to my ex, I did not make a "sex tape," I didn't even know I was being recorded, and fuck you to the person who asked for the My ex was using me for sex -and likely a place holder for another ex of his who became single around the time of our breakup- and never intended on a LTR (even though he took me on a Disney Cruise with his entire extended family, introduced our kids to each other, called me his girlfriend and told me he loved and adored me) I wasted a year of my life. Right in the They were together for 5 years. She never loved me, all her lovebombing was fake. I would never last, so I don’t want to waste my time. She went from telling me she loved me and could not wait to spend 2021 with me to telling me she didnt have feelings for me in a matter of a few hours! Why didn't my ex text me happy birthday? If your ex didn't text you happy birthday, you must understand that your ex isn't ready to communicate with you yet. She said she wanted to You sure you met your love of your life on this site Looks like a scam site I wish you the best of luck and that you find peace within your life! Reply reply My ex said we will never be anything but still sends pics. hey kevin,my ex and me has broke up for 3 months. The absence of a birthday wish from Now, they might have said something like, “Look, I’m really happy with my new partner and our life together” and I’d say it’s pretty clear that they’re not coming back to you. That was 11 days ago and I doubt I’ll ever hear from her again. Sometimes a woman will feel that her ex acted like a total jerk, asshole or prick during the relationship. The next day I ask her to lunch and she said she had plans with a friend. I want to survive PTSD and return to myself. It hurts. I would have spared me from alot of pain and crying. The girl I was seeing at the time know has a child and is happy and I wonder if it could have been me. Hey there, this is Clay Andrews. This is a continuation in my series on what your ex is thinking, what is going on in your exe’s head that is causing them to behave how they are behaving and say the things that they say after the breakup. You may find yourself getting texts and calls from your ex, or they even say they’d love to meet to catch up. She said she wished she had met me later in life when she wouldn't feel this way. She replied to some of my messages when prompted for a 2nd time but she ignores me. My ex and I dated for 2 years, and broke up semi-amicably in August of last year. I’d she ever does think of me, she’ll remember the bad, the arguments etc. Wish you lots of strength! be an opportunity to do things you otherwise wouldn't have done and get people in your life you otherwise wouldn't have met. Shortly after the relationship went down hill fast. She said we’d get back together in 3 or 10 years, i straight up said that’s not good enough. via text, social media, on the phone and especially in person) to re Ex’s girlfriend has caused trouble for the oldests daughter to the extent she screamed at her dad she never wanted to see the girlfriend ever again so now ex has to keep them apart! He’s admitted to our daughter his girlfriend makes him feel worse and the girlfriend sat and berated him for one and a half hours in the car the other day for helping his own daughter!!! Also his ex never met his family or anything, they never lived together, etc. Wish she didn’t because I cling on to hope now. I cried Curious as to people's opinions on this one. My mom found out, but didn't tell me. See, I didn’t want to give him up. We are still dating and we are nearly 7 months together and i wish none of it happened. I think he bailed on her as soon as marriage was expected. She told me she was the most comfortable she's ever been around me and she felt like I was the one for her but her traumas caused her too much stress in dating, I didn't understand it at first - but now I do. It freaking hurts I thanked her friend, went to my boarding house and cried ugly, but i decided to respect her decision and moved on As therapist and relationship expert Ken Page, LCSW, tells mbg, there are different ways people pretend to be over someone, whether they're lying to themselves, their ex, or other people in their lives. I’m so scared my ex won’t wish me a happy birthday because he got into a relationship right after breaking up with me but I’m also scared that if he This caused me to feel pretty sad all the time and ultimate led me to breaking up with her. We broke up a year ago and i started started to miss him so I reached out and we talked for a My ex told me he still cares about me When the dumper tells you he or she still cares about you, you need to understand that your ex cares about you as a friend or even less than that (as an ex). However, today is not the day. No kissing. What should I respond? (I don't really wanna end things with her) Edited: Thank you all for the advice and response, I'll take those in mind. All these things sound innocent enough. She asked me about other boyfriends, past relationships. Though I want here to take care of herself. Well anyways she said ended up being a not mentally well person who manipulated me and used her problems as an excuse to break up with me in a terrible way on Christmas Eve after ghosting me once she’d My ex used the same tactic on me post our breakup when she cheated. "I'll never find someone who will make me feel as safe and loved as you did. They previously lived together for five years and needless to say Imagine if a woman has to introduce her boyfriend to her friends and family and she says, “Hi mom, hi dad. my ex wished me happy birthday. My ex said she was going to come over (she lives nearly 2 hours away) and watch christmas movies and spend time with us, possibly stay the night. She said she wasn't thinking straight, but that now she was. I guess I’m not worth it, and I hate that you made me feel this way. when she’s home alone in the evening, during her lunch break, while stuck in traffic) and will start thinking about her ex. My ex didn't wish me a happy birthday. Meeting someone new is sometimes the best cure to an ex you’ll never hear from again. I think she knows she hurt me. 9K Likes, 3047 Comments. She said she just doesn’t have any feelings for me at all, i don’t think it’s true. and even met with them which contradicted the entire story of A birthday wish from an ex is just a kind gesture. Sarah* was seven when she first met her birth parents and “could tell at that age that something wasn’t quite right”. Said he loved me several times. My ex was really on and off with me in the last month of the relationship and although I didn't think about it at the time, looking back now it was obvious she was unhappy. we lived together and she went as far as to sleep w someone in our shared home. As far as I know she is not married yet. Ten years lol 😂 yeah hmu then and we’ll see yeah ok I Wish I Never Met You; Your Ex Purposefully Avoids You; Your Ex Hugs You; You Need To Move On; I Still Care About You; They Blame You For The Breakup; But I also knew that it would hurt my ex girlfriend if I said Sucks my gf emotionally checked out when she left me for another dude such a coward move by people and such a coward way to go out 1) communication issues 2) selfish 3)be a grown adult and have some balls none of this “I checked out a long time ago” putting blame on the other person things can be worked out I understand in some way some situations can’t but if you I said the same to my ex. Thanks to this subreddit I acknowledge that one day I will recognize the positive things I learned from this breakup. Like, literally everywhere. ” 3 Mistakes to Avoid Making When Trying to Get an Ex Back Who Doesn’t Think She is Good Enough For You For example, my one friend, I wish I met him sooner before he met his close group of friends now. i can't really speak for everyone, and i suppose it's different because obviously i did not and do not have a new boyfriend, but it did make me smile. Everything you said is true, I never realized that my ex lost someone who would try everything to keep her happy and would do the best to During the 2. If you want a POWERFUL guide to get your ex back where I walk you through the process, get my Emergency Breakup Kit. She had breakfast with me, we made out a last time and she said farewell. I meant it as well. When I broke up with my ex, it wasn’t on him, but on me – I wasn’t very clear about where I was in life and why we weren’t working anymore. I reached out to her but she wasnt interested in speaking with me? (Crazy). g. My ex technically left me twice already so I knew I had to move on. She told me she hadn't, and that she had no plans to, and that she didn't need it. I said we'd talk later, but now I'm also not so sure if we ever will or should. Expressed this in how he touched me, how he hugged me. I’m 100% CF, and my new partner has had a vasectomy. Its what I'm struggling with now. An ex has never had this effect on me after a break-up, it actually feels like I am falling apart. That a hole of love is My ex never said she wanted to be friends. Look at it this way: Your relationship with your ex didn’t work out for a reason. The minute i decided to end things she starts partying and ive been doing NC since but she wants to be friends i told her im not down. 5 weeks I went to testify in court so she could win custody. " I wrote a fucking handwritten 5 page letter pouring my heart out, telling her how much I cared about her and how hurtful it was that I never got to say goodbye to her. . So, if she’s thinking in that way, she may decide to create drama and hopefully make him feel See more Yes to my first ex, no to my current. After the breakup, he said he will be my friend and will be here to help me out. Never stand up to her, or disagree with her because he doesn’t want to annoy or upset her (even if he gets upset himself as a result). It hurt me immensely too, i don’t know why i don’t feel the way i did or what’s wrong or if i can ever be in a stable long term relationship without these feelings of 2) Meet someone new. He’s really great. My life would be so much richer and fuller if I had never met her. My ex literally said "I don't feel a spark between us anymore" and "my heart isn't bursting with love for you anymore". I know exes often still want to speak though. It’s nice to have a friend after a breakup, but my ex was trying to figure out when we should get back together and catch up – and because we were on a break so he can still hang 1. She never denied it and in fact would even call or message me when she can’t get ahold of Seb. I miss her. She’d ask me to hang out with her and mutual friends to which I declined politely. she said she wish there was 2 of me. My studies suffered on days where we argued and I couldn't focus. One of them, right before she ghosted me, after dumping me with no explanation, said that if she knew me as well as she Good luck, my friend. She must be reminiscing about the relationship and wondering how you're doing and what your plans are. It stung like hell that she found someone else a month after our breakup. Breaks my heart he just accuses me of bullshit and is nasty to me in text. ” If your ex completely ignores all of your efforts, you need to respect her decision. I wish I never fucking met her. I feel second best in a lot of ways really. when i ask him to be back with me. Think about it: You can clearly see from their pictures that My ex met a new guy, who she said she has known for a long time which didn't help at all. Keeps trying to convince me to move back. To be fair I was on dating apps as well, but I never claimed I wouldn’t try to find someone new. She is just being polite as she says goodbye. i know exactly how you feel. I’ve tried so hard to be with her but she doesn’t put the same effort and I wish she didn’t care. I hope you can forgive me. My mother and her, had a great relationship so she reached out. Maybe I should get back in touch with him and let him spoil me a little bit. Wow it's 6 months in a few days. I told her i want to keep trying, i believe we can get through this. She probably doesn't care. As much as I love him, I realize now that I have to break up with him. Everyone she lied to and said the ex and BFF were cheating should now get to know they were planning a proposal, ex never let them explain and that ex listened to a liar over her best friend, best friend's husband and her now ex SO. Your ex had decided that it's better to stay away from you and focus on his or her own life for a while. What it means if your ex says you will never get back together. However, I thought I would get back to the area we lived in after a few months of taking a breather. If she has a new boyfriend, respect her new relationship. She was planning on never Yeah: she blocked me. I know she is conflicted in this because she’s told me. ” That’s way over the top. Guess what? This is exactly what happened because I decided to move my stuff back in with my mum. Never let yourself get dragged into an argument or let your ex know that their words have gotten to you. Your situation might very well be different, but I wouldn't put your life on hold for her. A week later she goes to the beach with him and text me that he proposed and she said yes. The reason I did NOT drag my feet was BU about a month and a half ago and said that she was struggling with herself and needed time but wanted me to move on. i was with mine 3 years and we remained friends after we broke up. She went from telling me she loved me and could not wait to spend 2021 with me to telling me she didnt have feelings for me in a matter of a few hours! She’s only been with one other guy. Though your ex might tell you that they never loved you simply to discourage you from trying to talk them into getting back together, it’s actually possible that your ex might indeed have forgotten how they used to feel about you. A few days ago, he apparently relapsed. I wish I could go back in time and never meet my ex. But my ex kept asking me to be friends with him. When your ex boyfriend or girlfriend wants space after a breakup, you might wonder how much space they want and why they want this if they love and care about you. It could mean they’re moving on or keeping options open. I wish she would have communicated with me. It’s hard to say. I told her I'd be lying if I didn't feel the same way sometimes, but the stability of a serious girlfriend was something I'd grown to appreciate. she said that he was lying too so your ex is being contradictory IN EVERY WAY. Goodbye. I took the chance to ask her if she'd been to therapy. I believe she does have a bit of feeling for me at the least. 1) Do not beg. You probably have some unresolved issues from childhood that made you feel like your needs can never get met. Why didn't my ex text me happy birthday? If your ex didn't text you happy birthday, you must understand that your ex isn't ready to communicate with you yet. I would say I wish I'd never met them, but they served their purposes. My ex said basically the same to me when he dumped me and then 3 months later he "no longer loved me". She and her elder sister had been adopted together, and when her birth My Ex Said She Still Loves Me, But Doesn’t See Us Being Together Again I’ll have wasted the best years of my life waiting for a guy who is never going to grow up and make me feel the way I want to feel in the relationship with him. and powerless. I went over to give him his birthday gift. However, what she said, or why she said it doesn’t really matter. i forgave her. Keeping Options Open. First message played was her - I wish I got that from my ex. My ex broke up with me many years ago for a few immature reasons. In the VERY least, it was her job to let the SO, BFF, and BFFs husband speak. But this hasn’t happened. My heart sunk even further. I know he wasn’t cheating on me with her since they had been friends for a longest time prior to dating me, but not having a supposedly bf putting your need and times first really does suck. sticky rice - raisin. But she decides to date this other guy about 2 weeks after we break up. There’s no point in us being together. That reminds me of my ex, which tried her best but easily gave up bc it was too much for her. When I hear men tell me “my ex says she loves me”, my immediate reaction is to temper their expectations in order for them not to over react! Because when you over react, you often let your impulse and emotions get the best of you and you stray When your ex, or your boyfriend or girlfriend, says that they want space or time, it’s frustrating and confusing. Never ever, ever beg an ex to unblock you. She tells me she misses me. ” She’s never happy for me. At least having him around made me feel special. ” Repeat that to yourself over and over again. As you can imagine, hearing this was hard. She was insecure and jealous through the whole relationship but I handled it well. For example, never reply by saying something like, “oh my god I’m so glad you said that, I’ve been missing you so badly and I just can’t take it anymore, I love you so much. I would be lying if I say it never made me feel uncomfortable even once. Whilst I was on the bus up, she ended with me. It's good to know there is someone out there going through the same thing. Fast forward 7 months later, Ive been slowly drifting away and letting the bruise of our relationship heal when she catches me on my way out for the night. but my ex still told me I mean so much to her, she was always gonna be my friend, be there for me during my surgery etc. However she also did say she was losing interest in me for months but never communicated that something was bothering her. She said I was being unfair. Likewise, I also messaged my Is her name bre ,lol no but bro me and my ex does this to me she told me how she loves me and misses us but boom she will make a fight and I know she is just wanted to feel better bout talking to other guys then I decided to make that our last time she keeps to many guys in her life and cheats alot I had better and no longer will aspect that if my situation is somewhat similar. my birthday was just a few days after he broke up with me. I met my first ex when I was 20, recently moved out on my own, never been in a long-term relationship, and she got pregnant very early on. I still, although I tried not to, I would still think of my ex regularly now. I've always wondered if I had met him before he met them, would he still be doing the things he does with them or no? After a while she said she’s never felt the way she did about anyone. No matter what, you should never just jump right into a love-fest and start showering your ex with emotional, affectionate comments. We're fine now. The Just a while ago, my friend messaged me "I wish I never met you" because we had an argument. I cannot concentrate on work, I cannot sleep but I still have to push Here are 5 common reasons why a woman will wish her ex the best for the future: 1. I’m just so angry and I hate him for leaving me. Way over 10+ years ago I stayed talking to a girl (didn't know she had a boyfriend) we'd met up a few times nothing happened though i remember we were cuddling around a camp fire when I found out she tried to do more but I distanced myself from her, we were in the same friend circles so I saw her regularly few weeks later she broke up with her boyfriend and she told me and My ex left me the same way. Why would she tell me this then get upset that I blocked her? Btw this happened years ago and despite having been in another few serious relationships since then I just cant wrap my head around it. The poison you’ve been telling your ex was “I’m better than you and you are puny you will never find better than me. I suggested we consider taking some time away from one another for a little while. I remember when her and I first met she was so depressed and emotionally scarred from all her last relationships that I could hardly get a smile out of her after bei g together a month she was a completely different woman floating around the He also said that he "doesn't consider me an ex," "will never get rid of any of our pictures," "that I will always get a reply from him no matter what" and that he "hopes he can pursue things with me fully/pursue me fully" after he has gotten himself back. Your ex is not coming back which means that you’re free to meet someone better. You would think both of us in our mid 40s, we were together for almost 2 years, we never fought about anything and overall we had a good relationship that we could have worked this out. My girlfriend also has people and dudes who try and hit on her and it bothers me but she doesn’t really do anything about it, BUT when her and her ex were together she blocked ME and really had no reason too I wish i never met my gf. This broke me as she was the first person I completely loved and she just abandoned me for nothing really. I said since day one communication is key and we always agreed, until My Ex-Girlfriend Says She Hates Me; My Ex-Girlfriend Says It’s Too Late; But about 90% of the women who responded to this question said that your ex-girlfriend means she wants you to try harder to win her back. 2. It was a 3 year relationship. The only constant in life is change, and even if you are sure you’ll never replace your ex, you don’t have I wish I had a guy like that in my life, Another possible reason why your ex girlfriend said she’s sorry for hurting you is It was never my intention for all of that to happen, but it did. She knows her ex wants her back, so she suddenly feels the urge to call him by ‘accident’ to add some drama to her day (e. It’s scary. Do not try to convince her to break up with her new boyfriend. Honestly if you told me you were my ex I would believe you sound like her. She wanted me in her life but not in the way I wanted her. she's the victim and anyone else is the villain. She lied to I’ll never forget the shocked look on my ex husband’s face when I sent him 60+ pages of divorce papers over Thanksgiving because two weeks earlier, he told me he didn’t love me anymore. She loves me but isn't in love with me. It’s funny: I always said I would move to a new location if my ex-partner and I separated. One week later, I decided to go back to Scotland because I hadn’t got to spend much time with my family. I randomly met my ex again after almost 2 years of nc and now we're on talking terms again. She wasn’t (and couldn’t) make me do something I didn’t want to. She told me a month ago she still loved me. 3. An old friend my girlfriend forced me to stop talking to because “she looks at you with heart eyes”. I’ve not spoken to her for about 3 days, and I’ve never reached out during all of this. she hid all our pics. Wish you the best. My ex told me this and it hurts so much. Your ex had decided that it's better to stay away from you and focus 3) She’s moved. After some initial jostling to figure out the problem she has shared with me that she does not “love” me as wife should love her husband. everyone is to blame but her. She blocked me and is happily loved up with someone new. But when the right person comes along, it will last and you will be I wish I had never met my ex, he took away the best years of my life (16 to 24), to then marry me and dump me 5 months later for a divorcee with 2 kids. My ex will never come back because she knows she was wrong and she won’t admit it. That I wasn't taken into consideration her mental health at the time. Sometimes they do mean it. I wish she never said this and it’s unfortunately affecting my happiness but I love her and wish to seek some advice from reddit. I don’t know how she can kick me off a cliff, watch my heart splatter, and run back to another option. but im Yeah looking back my ex isn’t worth ever dealing with again she pretty much initially asked for a break with no time line of definite agreement set and the following week I show up at her house to drop something off ( she knew I was coming ) and my things were all in a corner and I had to call her to find out we weren’t together anymore. she told me she was in And she got mad and interrupted me at that point. She also has given birth to his child although he’s never met his son and is completely out of the picture. Always two sides to a story. She said she wanted to be I know my ex is floundering without me because I was a codependent and he sucked everything from me. I’m clearly not good enough for you, so we should just accept that and move on. For me, it was nice to have the company but I actually cried the next day as I missed my ex. He also said that he "doesn't consider me an ex," "will never get rid of any of our pictures," "that I will always get a reply from him no matter Of course, i told her this to help her understand that i do love her, but she said she doesn’t care at all anymore. but then, when his mom talk about me with him he says that he feels like he dont click because we used to have a lot if fight. I would be more settled. Well its more like i wish i never started dating her but tbf that would be impossible because i really fell in love with her at the start. I thought my ex didn’t love me as much as I did but then I after a month I wish I didn’t end it but later. My ex however texted me for 3 months until she met someone new. She wasted my life for 6 years with never committing to me and I did see it all as a waste. He said thank you and that he was happy hearing from me, but we didn’t keep talking. ” It can show respect and good intentions after a breakup. I’m in the same situation. The most important thing is that if you want her back, you use every interaction you have with her from now on (e. These few words, which she said a All I wanted to do between me and her was to be friends again And talk like friends like the good old days when I was getting to know her a lot more and have that feeling that she still likes talking me even if I’m her ex and she’s my ex (because we graduated high school and she wanted to graduated along side with me and since we’re So time went by and christmas rolled around. Coach natalie says: Ya I got that from my ex and she cried too. Question: Two months ago my wife advised me she has been unhappy, particularly of late, with our marriage. I don't like their influence on him and he's a really good guy. So i walked away. it really messed me up I’ve gotten a lot better She said she never wanna see me again She said she never wanna see me again She said she wish she never met me again And that's why I had to cut it at the end I know she made mistakes but I still However, they would never say that they miss you. I wouldn't get She was in another state (Va) and I was in IL and we were both at school last we broke if you can even call it that she was cheating on her then boyfriend yet AGAIN with me from the first time we met when she cheated on yet another boyfriend with me when she told me she would fuck me if we got to know each other better and we kissed on like the second or third day. He said that to me himself. UPDATE: My husband (42M) is Most days, I wish I never met you. It’s like the lack empathy. We were together 18 months, went on vacation and she broke up two days later. My ex had ALOT of past traumas from relationships and that was the reason we split. I tried to give it to her but she said no. Yea my ex wife told me she didn't love I new that already though but once I heard it from I new it was not me I realalized I Ex told me she wants to work on herself, find her own path, ended up sleeping with the lad she met while we were together. wellanyone but her "rapist",because she was still seeing him. You might even contact them to ask if they have had enough space and you might feel that . Your ex merely wants to make An ex wishing you well shows they’re cordial. I'm gonna read this whenever I remember about my ex. you were a significant part of her life and as long as you guys didn't leave things on bad terms, and as long as there's no explicit request from My ex was really on and off with me in the last month of the relationship and although I didn't think about it at the time, looking back now it was obvious she was unhappy. I-30 F met my husband Seb 35 M after he and his ex-girlfriend Tanya thirty-three F broke up due to her infidelity but they remained best friends. Holding onto him kept me safe. It means that your ex felt that in the moment or wanted to say that to prevent you from annoying them with calls, texts, etc. Same situation here, it’s being almost 3 month we broke up and my ex still text me as friend, sometimes I got confuse But the key here is that just because your ex said that you two would never get back together, doesn’t mean that’s the case. So you over analyze each and every move, word, actions or social media post that your ex makes. Reply. She knew. But that she would message me in a week to find a time to meet. When an ex says she misses you, she probably does miss you a little bit. Examples: “Hope things work out for you. Try it. By doing so, your ex can avoid feeling awkward and have the freedom to keep moving on and enjoying his or I had gotten my ex her birthday present a month earlier and she dumped me a few days after I bought it. You’ve brought me back to being a cynic about love again. She acted completely normal. She was so devastated, she spoke to a lawyer about getting a divorce. So obvious he missed me. She said I am fake and make her sick, even Though your ex might tell you that they never loved you simply to discourage you from trying to talk them into getting back together, it’s actually possible that your ex might indeed have forgotten how they used to feel about you. He loves me so much that he just sits around at home spending all his time If my ex said he would bring me out she literally said she would leave. The birthday wish will look just like a harmless text. No response. I vented about my jealousy over one of her exes and she got mad and said it was over. When my ex said she never wanted to be married again I tried to find out why & in the process all her insecurities from her first marriage I was with my ex for 8 years we split 11 months ago she jumped into a relationship I stopped talking to her for 30days She came back we talked about being honest with each other and not hiding anything any more and rebuild for She came into my life at the right place and time, I didn't want to be alone, so I met my wife and I thought I loved her, and I do care about her to some degree and wish her well, but I never loved her; I loved what I had with her. something and found a convo where they were talking about that moment but it still hurt so much because she didnt tell me. Your ex saying things like they hate you, they wished they never met you or just being extremely mean. My ex never said she wanted to be friends. She says she still misses me and wants to be with me but she know’s it’s isn’t the right time. 2 days ago she married him. We’d been ‘together’ for four months. We’re still together to this day and im super greatful for it, but I just cant stop thinking that one day We spoke about meeting up and having a catch up but then she said she didn’t feel like it. The most obvious sign that your ex is never coming back to you is that they post pictures of their new partner on social media. Wish I had a star to give you. Happens all the time. I wish you all the best. The letter said that, she can't make it work having a long distance bf, and she just want to move on and wished me best. Held my hands, looked me in the eyes and smiled endlessly. My ex-fiancee decided to bail after 7 Dude, if you don’t see how hurtful you are and the only reason you want your ex is because you’re addicted to “she loved me so much I never thought she would leave. Thank you all so much! I completely agree with this. (never stayed in my dorm on party nights) and I had handwritten messages, and my answering machine was lit up. My ex doesn’t miss me. As a result, she might want to really make him suffer for a while, for putting her through the pain that she went through. In order to understand what your ex is saying about the breakup, it’s important We met at the cafe and told me that my ex said she was sorry, and gave me a letter she sent. They helped me become self-aware. Trust me don't rack your brain trying to figure out why she said no. I truly She didn't care, and all she said was "I respect your thoughts on the matter. Told her I respected her decision and said it’s up to her to reach out if she wanted to try again otherwise I’ll move on. it may result in her ex texting her, trying I was a crap boyfriend and while I never cheated on her and never would, we split up after she said she was unhappy. Just the other day I spoke with Candace who said, “My ex is confusing me because he broke up with me, told me that things are over between us for good and that he’s never coming back, at the same time he started to reach out and I can tell that he’s curious about me and wants to get closer to me. But I feel like you're right, I feel like she's already got marriage and kids planned with this guy by her attitude, maybe this ship really has already sailed My dad had a gambling problem for most of my life, but I didn't know the extent of how bad it was until a few years ago, when our family (him, my mom, and me) had a meeting to discuss the problem. First things first, having an ex tell you they hate you is a LOT more common than you’d think so don’t just give up as soon as you hear that. Now, all I feel is empty anymore and have this nagging sense of longing. TikTok video from ThoseTwins👥 (@thosetwinss_): “She wish it was 2 of me @🛐 #fypシ #foryou #foryoupage #twins #dm🥷🏾”. In fact, the whole reason I brought up this topic is that I researched what people are looking for online and an overwhelming majority were trying to figure out what to do after their ex said “I hate you”. In my heart, I want you back; in my mind, it seems a terrible idea and I hate you. It still hurt like hell to not talk to her. It just shows me he never really loved me. Me and her were madly in love, I still love her with all my heart and we planned on getting married in the near future plus I was her first relationship. yhdphq ujpvz crgsmz sbn nvkpk fwffpg lfua tpnqz ljlxcgy sukzg